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How My Life Changed


                                                       6 YEARS AGO…



                                                                       By Stacy Alonso


                                              groups in Palm Beach, Broward, and   more rewarding than just donating
                                              Miami-Dade. I walked out of that first   to a cause. I have learned and am still
                                              meeting with a new respect for what   learning about non-profits and charity
                                              a small group of people can do and   work. I have a new respect for how
                    ince 2007, my husband,    with a new title: Treasurer.     difficult it is to raise money. I found
                    Jose, and I have had a small   While serving on a board of   thousands of organizations trying
                    accounting firm. It is a full-time   directors may seem glamorous to   to raise money for causes. Some
                    job helping run the business
             Sand helping clients while also   many, it is not. It comes with little   organizations are great, others…
                                              recognition and lots of work, meetings  not so much. It is critical for your
              being a wife, mother, maid, cook... you   and more. I do not get paid for it or   organization to be recognized as
              get the picture. That said, in 2013,   receive any special perks (except the   being well run. The Scleroderma
              when Jose and I were approached by   time I got to meet Jason Alexander   Foundation is a 4-star rated charity on
              the Chapter President of the Sclero-  from Seinfeld).            Charitynavigator.org. We work hard
              derma Foundation, Jerry Lance, we   Making that decision to step up   to keep up that rating.
              were hard pressed not to help. Jerry   6 years ago has changed my life. I   Our chapter is proud to have
              needed a treasurer for this nonprofit   never say I am too busy and, in fact,   given over $45,000 for direct research
              and since Jose was overwhelmed   have learned to managed my time   funding. The Foundation, as a whole,
              with work, it fell upon me. I agreed to   better to accommodate my additional  has contributed an average of $1
              meet with them to assess their needs.   responsibilities.        million per year for research funding.
              I had time... right?? Of course, excuses   I also found that my empathy   The Foundation now has 20 chapters
              are easy.                       level has increased. Not that I was   and 160 support groups across the
                 On my way to their board meeting
              in Broward, an hour from my home,   a bad person to begin with! I have   country.
                                                                                  People ask me why I am involved
                                              just learned that people who are
              I questioned what I was doing having   fighting a chronic, debilitating disease   in Scleroderma. Do I, have it? Does
              never served on a board with little   need to be acknowledged and have   someone I love have it? My answer
              free time. Upon arrival, this group   their disease recognized. When this   is always the same: No, I don’t
              welcomed me with open arms. I was   person says that they are tired, I   have it and yes, many people that
              deeply moved by how this disease   don’t say “me too”. I understand   I have grown to love do have it. It
              had touched each of their lives directly   that their tiredness is to the bone,   is heartbreaking each time that we
              or indirectly and agreed to help. They   beyond anything that I have ever felt.   lose a member of our group to this
              quickly educated me about this rare   Therefore, I now ask them “how can I   disease. We hope that someday,
              disease that gets so little funding   help you?”                 our little group of Directors will
              because only 300,000 people in the   Volunteering and being directly   not be needed any longer because
              United States are affected.     involved with Scleroderma is so much   Scleroderma has been cured.
                 Unlike cancer and heart disease,
              rare diseases such as Scleroderma
              are equally devastating with no    For more information regarding
              cure yet. The Foundation mission's   The Scleroderma Foundation,
              is one of bringing about awareness,   Southeast Florida Chapter, please
              educating families on how to cope,   call Ferne Robin, Executive Director,
              and stimulating and supporting     at 954-798-1854, e-mail her at
              research. The Southeast Florida    sclerodermasefl@gmail.com or
              Chapter helps in this effort by    go to www.scleroderma.org.
              assisting and organizing local support





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